Spanking Possibilities:
Expectations you May
Want to Discuss

by Margaret Davis, Governess

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Types and Reasons

PLAYFUL

 PUNISHMENT / DISCIPLINE
(often includes "The Ritual" / Rituals)

MAINTENANCE / PREVENTION

SENSUOUS

EROTIC
 

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After identifying your style consider these
four factors that make the setting part of your need:
Positions, Approches, Responses, Implements
 

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(* more traditional / purist approach )
(** appeals to both traditional spankers and
erotic leather players)
 
 

Positions
(Allow plenty of room for feet, head and hands.)
*Over-The-Knee, chair / bed / sofa
* over one knee or two
* scissors hold
* bent over a desk / bed / sofa
* tummy down on a bed
* holding ankles
*all fours
suspended
stocks
bondage
 
 

Approaches
** private / group / public
** serious delivery or a more jovial setting

** dressed or nude participants
** street clothes / lingerie
vs. leather or child-like costuming

* parent / teacher / student / child / "brat"
*boss / subordinate
vs. master / slave / "S.A.M."
vs. two equals with equal "power"

* repeated rhythmic striking (or tapping)
vs. less striking more rubbing & touching
vs. various sensations

* scolding phrases
vs. humorous
vs. erotic words and commands

* reason (punishment)
* no reason (maintenance)
vs. playful interaction
vs. sex (erotic)
vs. tactile pleasure

* temperature taking, enemas & figging
vs. fingers and butt plugs

* chastisement & embarrassment
vs. total humiliation
vs. relaxation

* for your own good"
vs. "for my / our pleasure"

embarrassing, "forced" feminization
vs. pleasurable cross-dressing
 
 
 

Responses
(many possibilities)
* resistance / tears / pouting
embarrassment / obedience
laughing / joking / pleasurable moans
compliance / humble silence
 

Implements
** hand
** paddle (wood, leather)
* belt
* hairbrush
* wooden spoon
* slipper *ruler
* cane * birch
* tawse * strap
* switch
whip / riding crop
cat o'nine tails
martinet / flogger

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"The Ritual":   The process of repentance, purification,
forgiveness & loving correction.
Possibilities: very real offenses or role-play...
forewarning, anticipation, corner time, "fear",
serious atmosphere, serious spanking, privacy,
scolding, explanation, followed by cuddle time
or being sent to bed. There is closure and forgiveness.

Rituals:   Possibilities: Sent to a room to wait, standing in the
corner, addressing someone as "sir" or "ma'am" during this
time, asking for the spanking, standing and hearing offenses
explained, being told to present the implement, having pants
removed, or being told to remove them.
 

Copyright 1995-2005 Ms.Margaret Davis
 
 

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