Protocol for all SCONY
Parties
SCONY's goal it to offer a safe, less threatening atmosphere for first
meetings.
Many spankers prefer a more private situation for old-fashioned
spanking.
There are many other groups in NYC to enjoy a BDSM play style.
Explanation
of SCONY Rules as posted on A.S.R.
copyright 1999, 2004 Ms. Margaret Davis
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Appropriate
play:
Old-Fashioned, Platonic, Traditional, Institutional, Loving And
Parental
spanking. (OPTILAP) Playful and/or light discipline scenes
only. Marks and bruises are not welcome. Sensuous and
erotic play is best
kept private and at another time.
*** All bottoms are encouraged to wear a thong.
*** Appropriate implements: HAND, paddle, hairbrush, strap,
wooden spoon,
cane, tawse, birch
*** Appropriate titles: Mr., Ms., Miss or first names
***
The collared slave & Master dynamic should be kept private.
It has minimal appeal at SCONY
*** Appropriate dress: On
the dressy side of casual. No T-shirts
or
flannel shirts
*** Keep a respectful distance when watching others.
*** We use safe words. "Yellow" (ease up/caution) and "RED" for
stop.
*** A hand on the ankle means to ease up/lighten up.
*** No Leather, Latex,
PVC,
Diapers or Cross dressing.
*** No T-shirs, flannel shirts, or caps.
*** No whips, riding crops, cat o' nine tails or floggers.
*** No collars, leashes, ropes or bondage equipment.
*** No large implement carriers or shopping bags. Use checkrooms.
*** No erotic massaging
*** No frontal nudity. The only private area occasionally exposed is
the
buttocks where a thong is in
place. (A thong is different than an athletic supporter)
*** Playful or light discipline scenes preferred.
*** Erotic spanking is discouraged and not appreciated.
*** No one does business but Ms. Margaret. Vendors and such are rare.
*** No sex, no prostitution, no pandering nor pimping
*** No cameras or recording devices of any kind.
*** No cell phones can be used inside the party space. Please go
outside.
Explanation
of SCONY Rules as posted on A.S.R.