Ms. Margaret H. Davis &
        The Spanking Club of New York  
                           (SCONY)

Margaret Davis is an attractive, educated and conservative woman who believes in over-the-knee spanking as a lifestyle.  For many years she has carefully interviewed and had private sessions with hundreds of people in the spanking community around the country.  Without altering her origins as a lady she has moved about the scene, dressed in regular business clothes, spanking many a deserving adult who has craved a strict session of discipline.  She has no interest in leather, abusive treatment, or anything sexual.  Her specialty is delivering a firm spanking with due regard to a person's limits, special concerns, and the need to be nurtured. Her style is to provide the "Ritual", as she calls it, that you would only get from a caring parent.  She has a deep understanding of the need for 'a disciplinarian' (male or female) who, like a loving authority figure, holds consenting players responsible for irresponsible behavior.  She uses an acronym for this style called O.P.T.I.L.A.P.:  Old-fashioned, Platonic, Traditional, Institutional, Loving And Parental discipline.

As a responsible and mature member of the spanking community, Margaret also conducts workshops on safe and sane choices in dominance and submission with special regard to newly emerging female participants.  Inspired by a talk presented to a leather society in New York in 1993 Margaret separated and identified five styles or approaches to spanking scenes:  Playful, Maintenance, Discipline, Sensuous and Erotic.    While playful spanking is a relaxing part of her parties, Ms. Margaret's favorite specialty is the discipline spanking.  Shy females have a difficult time surfacing publicly and Ms. Margaret does what she can to ease them into the community with the kind of support they require.  By encouraging people to be clear and identify the style they need Margaret continually creates a safe environment around her.   She is committed to making all novices comfortable and informing them of community protocol .  New players and vanilla spouses find it much easier to attend her parties since the atmosphere is more conducive to heterosexual players new to the scene.  The style used at her parties is playful or discipline.  Overtly sexual scenes are not part of Ms. Margaret's interest.

As the president of the Spanking Club of New York (SCONY) Margaret provides many opportunities for shy spankers to meet and enjoy their special calling.  She has a carefully planned calendar of activities where heterosexual spankers may join her at parties and demonstrations.  One of the most beloved gatherings of the year is the Weekend in the Mountains, where old-fashioned spankers from all over the globe meet for a full three days of a different kind of spanking party.  There is adult play, plenty of private time, and some of the time is spent participating in St. Margaret's Academy.

SCONY protocol, by scene terms is fairly conservative and separates all sensuous and erotic play as an activity best kept in private.  If you really want to feel a part of the community all SCONY events are the best sources in the NYC area to meet other kindred spirits who are lovers of the over-the-knee experience. Many good friendships and romances have come from these parties.  If you stick to the rules and contribute to the healthy atmosphere, you become a part of the family.

Depending on her calendar Margaret tries to be available, if asked, to lead discussions and give talks on dominance, submission and other related topics.   Radio shows, scene groups and  university societies in the notheast have invited her to appear to present the unique perspective of a more modest, sane,  and private side of the community.  Talks included, "Play vs. Abuse", "Mature Choices & Spanking", "Humor in the Community",  "Styles of Spanking", "The Ritual" & "OPTILAP"  

"Margaret is a unique gift - certainly to New York City, if not to the community in general". -E.V.

MS. MARGARET'S CYBER CLUB 
Mon. -Thurs.  9:30 PM- 10 PM.  EST
Read SCONY protocol at www.scony.com.
SCONY has a message board where you can
join in the fun and asks questions about the
Mountain Weekend.  Sorry, but personal ads
will be deleted.

Entertainment, information and calendars:

• SPANKING VIDEOS

• SCONY EVENTS & MS. MARGARET'S CALENDAR
• (Article: *Loved it.  Loved it. Loved it.   One woman's account of her first spanking social.)
• SCONY Protocol:  First meetings, light discipline and playful spankings
• (Explanation of SCONY Rules as posted on A.S.R.)
• DIFFERENT STYLES OF SPANKING.  (It's not sexual for everyone!)
• Suggested Rules of all Scene Protocol ( Spanking, S&M, BDSM)
• Privacy and personal safety advice.
• Become a Healthy Player and Avoid Problems
• D&S, S&M, & SPANKING" vs. ABUSE..Empower yourself..'

• O.P.T.I.L.A.P

• SPANKING WEEKEND WITH MS. MARGARET & FRIENDS I 
• October 5-7, 2007.  Sign up now before it's too late. 
  
• SPANKING WEEKEND IN THE MOUNTAINS, Part II 

• MS. MARGARET'S CYBER CLUB. For the passcode read the two pages below then email MsMargaret@scony.com.
• Cyber Club Rules for the chat room
• Cyber Club Rules for the message board

Articles and helpful thoughts by Ms. Margaret:

• SPANKING POSSIBILITIES YOU MAY WANT TO PONDER
• "figging"
• EDITORIALS AND THOUGHTS BY MS. MARGARET
• RISKING IT ALL TO BE MS. MARGARET
• What is a man?
• A Spanking Story
• Picture This
• Maine and New York: The Story of Murphy and Scoop
  St. Margaret of Antioch.  This poor saint had it bad.  Her feast day is in July and she deserves a party.(a party to celebrate this holiday was held at PaddlesNYC.)
• Helpless, Alone, and out of time

Email Ms. Margaret for the pass code.  In your request give your age and your general area of interest or experience with spanking. Mention if you are a top, bottom or switch.  Polite people and novices welcome!  Good manners and discretion required.
 

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