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Margaret
Davis' Calendar & Party Page
and a
partial list
of events sponsored by the
Spanking Club of New York (SCONY)
For Traditional Heterosexual OTK Aficionado's
OPTILAP: Interactive, group socializing
to
re-establish and secure timeless community standards through the use of
Old-fashioned,
Platonic, Traditional, Institutional, Loving
And
Parental discipline." For short, it is an O.P.T.I.L.A.P.
spanking experience. It's not age play or role-play but a choice
to be
held accountable for behavior. It doesn't have to hurt but it
should, in
some way, get one's attention. Pain limits are expected and safe
words
respected.
Questions or suggestions email MsMargaret@scony.com
Chat Room
Ms. Margaret will be in her
Chat Room
Monday through
Thursday at 9:30 P.M. EST time
(6:30 P.M.
To find the current message board
and chat
go to the yahoo
link below. Sign up for the yahoo SCONY site first then you
will receive directions to the private message board and chat use.
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Protocol for all SCONY Parties.
***
Appropriate play: Old-Fashioned, Platonic, Traditional,
Institutional,
Loving And Parental spanking. (OPTILAP)
Playful and/or light discipline scenes only.
*** Sensuous and erotic play is best kept private and at another time.
*** Wearing a thong is recommended for privacy.
*** Appropriate implements: HAND, paddle, hairbrush, strap,
wooden spoon,
cane, tawse, birch
*** Appropriate titles: Mr., Ms., Miss or first names
*** The collared slave & Master dynamic should be kept
private. It
has minimal appeal at SCONY
*** Appropriate dress: On the dressy side of casual. No T-shirts
or
flannel shirts or caps.
*** Keep a respectful distance when watching others.
*** We use safe words. "Yellow" (ease up/caution) and
"RED" for stop.
*** A hand on the ankle means to ease up/lighten up.
*** No Leather,
Latex, PVC, Diapers or Cross dressing.
*** No whips, cat o' nine tails or floggers.
*** No collars, leashes, ropes or bondage equipment.
*** No large implement carriers or shopping bags.
*** No erotic massaging
*** No frontal nudity.
*** Erotic spanking is discouraged at SCONY parties.
*** No sex, no prostitution, no pandering nor pimping
*** No cameras or recording devices of any kind.
*** No cell phone use inside the party space. Go outside for all
calls.
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Saturday
Sept. 13, 2008
SCONY Spanking Party
LGBT Center, 1st floor, 208 West 13th Street
(between 7th and 8th Avenues) NYC.
7:30 - 11:30 PM
Ladies and SCONY members: FREE
Students with a college ID $5
Couples: $30
Single Men: $40.00
Bring something for the food table.
A_ modest_ amount of BYOB is allowed.
This is a good opportunity to come out in an non-threatening
atmosphere
and a great place to meet the people you interact with on
line.
Small areas are blocked off for privacy.
RSVP to MsMargaret@scony.com
if you plan to
attend.
Mail
your payment to SCONY,
While we may take money at the door, should the space fill up
preference
will
be given for those who paid in advance.
Entertaining in NYC is expessive so it's always helpful when people
plan
ahead, pay in advance and the ladies show up
on time.
(Ladies, there is no pressure to do anything. Introduce
yourself to
Ms.Margaret
and she'll do what she can to make you feel at home. )
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Oct. 10-12, 2008
and April 17-19, 2009
Spanking
Weekend
In the Mountains
with Ms. Margaret and Friends
Located
near
(If you're a new female don't let
this picture
scare you. Be assured everyone is safe.
People will respect your right to explore what you are comfortable
doing or not
doing.)
The weekend is for
lovers of playful
or discipline adult spanking.
There are plenty of opportunities to be included in private sessions,
which
take place behind room dividers, in the woodshed or in a private room.
No one is left out. Everyone gets a chance to be included.
For those who choose,
for a _few
hours_
on Saturday (11 am-3:00) classes at
St.
Margaret's Academy
will be back in
session.
School
colors: Maroon,
White and Pink.
We have a plaid uniform if you like
that. It's
on www.frenchtoast.com: burgundy plaid
or
wear a gray skirt and white blouse (appropriate maroon and pink accents
are
acceptable.
The short
classes are real and quite informative. They are conducted by
people in
the group who enjoy
sharing the special talents they have in real life. If you
misbehave
expect a discipline referral to come your way.
It is not 'school' in a role play sense. It is more of a
way to
meet.
It is truly enjoyable interacting and communicating before
Saturday
night.
The price for the weekend includes:
Room, Board and two evening
parties.
Great food. Two breakfasts, lunches, and dinners.
Friday and Saturday afternoon events to meet and interact
Totally privacy at the resort. We are their only overnight guests.
Real and private woodshed
Several very private play cubicles in the party spacel
Hours of undisturbed time in your own room if you choose.
You don't _have_ to do anything but bring a smile and good manners.
If you like plaid, don't forget your
plaid pajamas...drop seat is optional.
For products you can have fun with at the weekend go to the SCONY STORE
Click here for
specific
information.
Part I
Part II
For the
responsible 'brat'
it's an
O.P.T.I.L.A.P.
Experience
Old-Fashioned...Platonic...Traditional...Institutional...Loving
And Parental
Bring only a polite sense of humor,
respect for others and knowledge of
the
objectives of the gathering,
which is to spank, get spanked, and
have a very
happy weekend.
For more information read the two links above then email
MsMargaret@scony.com
Nov. 15 LGBT Center Rm.101
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How do you get included
in a
spanking party?
Meet us ahead of time on the
message board or chat.
Be patient at parties. It takes time and _trust_.
MS. MARGARET'S
CYBER
CLUB
Mon. -Thurs.
9:30 PM- 10
PM. EST
Read about SCONY at www.scony.com
Sign up for the Yahoo message
board.
Your membership has to be
accepted or denied and this usually happens with 24 hours or
less. Make
sure you mention you
are of legal age when applying to the SCONY Yahoo site. After you
are
accepted to Yahoo
there will be directions sent on how to get to the message board and
chat room
we use on Delphiforums.
We are in chat Mon-Thurs at 9:30 PM EST. Read the chat protocol
so
you know the rules.
SCONY has a Yahoo group
The chat room has come to
be SCONY’s
main vehicle for bonding, interacting and
keeping up friendships. It’s a good way for new people to come,
visit and
build some
connection with the group. We don’t get into anything serious and
use the
time for some end of
the day recreation. Of course, there is always the threat that at
the
next party eventually you will
meet up with the top you may be teasing.
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Past
Party Summaries and Comments:
Last Fall's comments:
"....Btw, I can't believe I met 3
legends
tonight, you, Chantal, and Belle. What an incredible night.
Maybe I can also discuss with you the possibility of me joining the
club.
....
Anyway, to reiterate, I hope yo contact me so we can discuss my
interest...
Thank you for a wonderful initiation into the party world......
"many thanks for hosting
such a wonderful party
on Saturday. Although L. and I are
happily married and devoted to each other we still find it comforting
to know
that we are not alone in our interests. On top of that, we also
had a lot
of fun!
We'll be writing to you next week with payment for a membership and
tickets for
the next party."
December
and
January, 2005
Private "Tea and Toast" party for the Ladies
Some ladies actually got tea, others,
who, for a
list of reasons fell under the heading of, 'not in good standing'
were put put in the corner and were labeled 'toast'. These 'Tea
and
Toast' parties are only held when it's
necessary bring business matters to the attetion of the ladies to show
how
responsible thinking on their part
is what keeps the SCONY family active and healthy.
February, 2005
Valentine's Day Love and Lace Party, February 12, 2005, Pennsylvania
Hotel
" Just wanted to drop a note and thank Margaret
and all
the lovely SCONY folks for making the Sat party such a good time.
I enjoyed relaxing and talking with many of you I have only met in chat
as well
as seeing some familiar
faces (um yes... faces! that's it!) I drove a few newbies up and in the
car on
the way all I heard was
"I'm just going to watch" and in the car back everyone was snoring
they had run around and played so much!
"It is nice to have a social like that which affords some privacy for
play
as well as plenty of
opportunity to say hello and laugh. Special thanks to the "staff" and
of course Margaret and Tom."
"We
want to thank everyone in the Scony group for their effort in producing
one of the best Valentine’s Day parties in
was great to see all the familiar Scony faces, along with the other new
or
familiar faces from the NYC area."
"The room on the top floor of the hotel was large, filled with tables
and
chairs, and lit in red. Music played and libations could be found in the
corners. Another much larger party was going on across the hall. No one
was
aware what we were up to."
January 14, 2006
"Thanks for everything. I don't know how
you do it all...but it works for me! I hope for you, too." M.
"Dear Ms. Margaret, I had a great time at the party last night. You
looked
like you were having a good time, too.
That was fun getting doubled-teamed by you and Tom" S.P.
Saturday, June 24, 2006
"I had a wonderful time at
the
party Saturday, in part because your philosophy is in line with my
ideals, and
in part
because I met F. and M. and K.BDSM is NOT my thing, but I want to give
everything a chance, since I waited so long to
get into this and D and E and M. and R. and G. and ...too many others
to
count....BDSM is NOT my thing,
but I want to give everything a chance, since I waited so long to
get
into this." Sincerely, S.
"Ms. Margaret, it was great to see you on Saturday. We both enjoyed
ourselves a lot!" S.
Just wanted to drop you a line and say what a great time I had at your
party!
WOW! BIG fun! I also
like the place where you had it. Feels comfortable there...THANK
YOU FOR
ALL YOUR EFFORTS!
I heard that you are doing a presentation here in NJ Sunday.
Think I will
come too! Knock 'em dead, killer!"
-J
Saturday, July 15, 2006
Thank you for a great time! Love the 'walls' for privacy.
Thank you for keeping things tasteful and fun.
Saturday, August 12,
2006
I never been to the
nice crowd of friendly people you had and bless you for having places
for
private play. My deposit for
the weekend is on the way.
Saturday Sept. 16, 2006
Thank you Ms M for a Fabulous party! ...it was the best time EVER!
Thanks again for everything you do and
for giving so
much of yourself! -J
I enjoyed myself very much in the party yesterday. I do find it very
important
that people come to play and have
fun and not just sit and do nothing, it also seems that you put a lot
of
thought in making sure that there is the right blend
of people and that the atmosphere will encourage play but will be
respectful
and safe....Thanks for a great party yesterday.... S.
Nov. 13, 2006
"I had a great time at the party and will see you at the next
one. Thanks to J., M., Tr., E., Mi. and others for their
hospitality".
....
How do you always get even numbers of men and women? Great party!
.... T.
Jan. 13, 2007
"What a great group of
people? Hope to see you chat more often. Thanks for the
warm
greeting at the door".... cher.
Feb. 10, 2007
"I never thought I would see G. dress in a jacket! Must be
you.
23 women and 26 men..... I counted! You got new music! Who
would
notice but me? ".....
Mar. 10, 2007
St. Patrick' Day and all green lights.
Good crowd and a lot of energy. If you add up all that you pay at
other
parties we are the cheapest. and give guests the most action
June 9, 2007
The first SCONY PROM "Remembering the Renaissance". Great crowd
dressed in formal attire! It was a true experiment and the
group showed up gowns, suits, tuxedo's, corsages and
glitter. The
prom king and queen did their part ot spike the punch
and all was well. Lots of noise, music and spanking.
July 14, 2007
"Elegant Denim" was the theme and everyone was glad for the more
casual attire during hot weather. The air conditioning made up
for any discomfort, more private play cubicles were in place, the music
was
great and about 40 people had a great time.
Sept. 8, 2007
I am so happy I found this wonderful group of people! To anyone who is
new and
shy, as I was when I showed up at my first
party, not knowing anyone, unwilling to totally admit to myself or
anyone else
that I have a lifelong interest in spanking: just do
it! This is a very friendly, "normal" group of people, who are
totally kind and supportive of newbies. As one person said, "we
were all new at one point, so we know what you are going through." What
an
amazing resource! I feel so fortunate!!! RR.
Jan. 19, 2008
I had the best time on Saturday too. Thanks again Ms. Margaret and Mr.
Ryder for
doing such a great job at keeping everyone happy, and
safe. And thanks Ms Margaret for supplying even more private cubicles
to play.
All those out of control bottoms were dealt with in
a timely fashion. I, not being one them, was thankful for that!
There
were a lot of new people there, and it was great meeting
everyone. I hope to see everyone again next month.
Jules
I second his motion. It was wonderful. Junior
I third it. I had a wonderful time, and enjoyed meeting some new
people as well! Brian
Feb. 16, 2008
I went to my first SCONY party this past Saturday and had an awesome
time. Most importantly, I want to thank everyone for making me feel
so comfortable, and welcome. For this reason, this was a unique
experience for me. Geri
A Truly Splendid Party!
This past Saturday was also my first time at a SCONY party and I'm not
sure if
I can articulate how totally impressed I was, but I'm going to give it
a try
just in case there are others reading that
have not yet plucked up the courage to attend one of Ms.
Margaret'sevents. The
space itself was innovatively designed for privacy, comfort and
aspanking good
time. The circumference of the room
had several curtained rectangular play areas that offered discretion
along with
a spanking apparatus in the main room for the exhibitionist. The
spacious room
was dimly lit overhead and enhanced
with rope lighting strategically scattered on the floor. There was a
beverage
table, a snacking table, and a wonderful display of play items for
purchase.
This was without a doubt one of the classiest spanking events I've ever
had the
good fortune to attend. The hosts (Ms. Margaret and Tom) could not have
been
more gracious and welcoming.
They made their way through the room many times ensuring the safety and
enjoyment of everyone attending. Impressed? Wait a sec! It
was all
topped by the resounding sound of wonderful
spankings that echoed delightfully throughout the room. I met so many
wonderful
people and had the pleasure of a red bum on the way home. Cheers
for now,
gabrielle
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Please keep visiting
this site for
up-to-date information on Ms. Margaret's
public appearances, SCONY parties, and socials.
To be part of Ms.
Margaret's mailing list send your address
to MsMargaret@scony.com .
For a private appointment with Ms. Margaret call 212.465.3469.
This is a voice mail only and no one will pick up at the time you call.
The
paddles on this page were painted by
Ms.Margare
and when they are available
can
be purchased only at SCONY parties in NYC
Entertainment,
information and calendars:
SPANKING VIDEOS
THE SPANKING CLUB OF NEW YORK (SCONY)
SCONY Protocol
(Explanation of SCONY Rules as
posted on
A.S.R.) Suggested Rules of
all
Scene Protocol ( Spanking, S&M, BDSM)
Privacy and personal safety advice.
Become
a
Healthy Player and Avoid Problems
D&S, S&M,
&
SPANKING" vs. ABUSE..Empower yourself..'
SPANKING
WEEKEND WITH
MS. MARGARET & FRIENDS Part I
SPANKING WEEKEND wITH MS. MARGARET
& FRIENDS PART II
Articles and helpful thoughts by Ms. Margaret:
SPANKING POSSIBILITIES YOU MAY WANT TO PONDER
"figging"
DIFFERENT STYLES OF SPANKING. EVERYBODY IS DIFFERENT.(It's not
sexual for
everyone.)
EDITORIALS AND THOUGHTS BY MS. MARGARET
RISKING IT ALL TO BE MS. MARGARET
What is a man?
A Spanking Story
Picture This
Maine and
New York:
The Story of Murphy and Scoop
St. Margaret of Antioch. This
poor saint had it bad. Her feast day is in July and she deserves
a party.
Helpless, Alone, and out of time
LINKS
SPANKING VIDEOS
SCONY STORE
Email Ms. Margaret
Copyright 1996- 2008
Ms. Margaret
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LGBT Center, 3rd floor, 208 West 13th Street
between
7th and 8th Avenues
Hotel Pennsylvania, 401 Seventh Ave. (Across from Penn Station)
KFMK Gallery, 515 West 29th St., NYC (Puple carpet on the front ramp)
TES/Joria Productions
3rd Floor
Doors open at 7:30pm
The program starts at 8:00pm
7:30 - 11:30 PMLadies and SCONY
members:
$15.00
(New or shy females can email MsMargaret@scony.com
for someone to meet you at the door or
walk you
to your car.)
Couples:
Single Men:
Bring something for the food table.
A_ modest_ amount of BYOB is
allowed.
This is a good opportunity to come out
in an
non-threatening atmosphere
and a great place to meet the people
you interact
with on line.
Small areas are blocked off for privacy.
RSVP
to MsMargaret@scony.com
if you plan to attend.
Mail
your payment to SCONY,
While we may take money at the door,
should the
space fill up preference will
be given for those who paid in advance.
Entertaining in NYC is expessive so
it's always
helpful when people plan
ahead, pay in advance and the ladies show up on time.
(Ladies, there is no pressure to do
anything.
Introduce yourself to Ms.Margaret
and she'll do what she can to make you
feel at
home. )
